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for your whole life people expected things from you. be good, be better, be successful, be happy, and you've tried, sometimes at the expense of your own peace, but to be good enough for others, maybe some of it helped, but a lot of it just made you feel like youre never doing enough, but whos life are you really living? whos voice are you trying to impress? if its not yours, let it go. you dont have to chase after a perfect life to deserve peace. youre not a list of achievements, youre a person, and your life, gets to feel like yours.

you dont have to have it all figured out. you dont need an idea, or the right words, or the perfect ounce of motivation. you just need to stay. stay another day, another breath, another blue moon, because pain doesnt last forever, even if it feels like it, so just stay, because your favorite moments in life haven't even happened yet.

This is going to be a mouthful, but I suggest you read it all. Posting as anonymous, but yeah, it's Amy. A lot wrong has happened on this site, like a LOT. And for me, this involved the insults & constant wars & whatnot. After it was all over, I think I started building myself off my hatred of you all. I started becoming my hatred ina way. Not a day went by that I didn't remember the hurt I felt. Also, somewhere alon… Read more

Every mod should have to play this game for training https://ed.icivics.org/games/executive-command

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@matt So ik it's I shouldn't tell you how to do your job, Bur I jsut wanna suggest somethings that would help wje (mainly the community) out alot.

1st a way easier way to navigate comments.

Maybe a list you can get in the profile page? It would help with deleting comments in a more efficient manner and also finding a specific conversation you wish to reread.

Maybe you could filter it by time (in or out of a certai… Read more

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This shit is crazy btw. Recently, Mal, Nyx and Jas have returned and today both Thoughtless and Dab is back. We're finally going in the right direction. And I think Explain has a major part in this.

So I'm announcing the Explain Bear Cult, if ylu wanna join comment here, I'll make u a pfp then u have to put #EBC in ur bio

@matt can we get a short cut for Explain Bear something like @EB or .EB

Idk how hard it would be bit it would be so good cuz just now.we have to write out his while name and we're lazy (we being me)

so this is gonna be my last post because I have to turn in my computer tomorrow (I meaning my sister cause I'm kinda stuck at home) so this is me saying bye for the summer. It was nice meeting a lot of new people and I look forward to talking to you guys in the fall. Byeeeeeee <3

I know that no one will care but this is everything that i've written in my journal.

I've been told all of my life that all I do is ruin peoples lives and that all I am is a mistake and shit. I've been told I'm not good enough and that I have to kill myself to make everyone happier. Well guess what. I've fucking tried and tried so many times. I've been trying to keep fighting but what happens? I keep getting hu… Read more

So like I gotta post this everywhere, cause Kayla is doing the ice bucket challenge, and yeah... Every year 726,000 people take there own lives, that’s 1 person every 40 seconds, if you or someone you know is struggling please reach out, you don’t have to fight these battles alone, don’t put a period, God isn’t done writing your story, please reach out, things will get better I promise, God gives hard challenges to his toughest warriors, things will get better, I love you.

No fucking way. One of my family friend's daughter's boyfriend's cousin got killed during a gang shooting last week. He was 16. 2 other teenagers were also killed. 15 wounded.

I'm literally not joking. The gangs have to go.

Why Is Ever One Leaving??? Either This Site Or life Its Fucking Bullshit To Hear That Someone Is Going To Kill Them Self, Just Don't I Have To Many Friends That Are Like That Are Like That So When I Go On This Site To See If Pepl Can Make Me Feel Les Shity About My Self And See The Some One Is Leaving The Site For A While Or A Week Or Just Killing Them Self And I Cant Stop It, It Just Makes Me Feel More Shity .

So Tomorrow Can It Be A Less Depressing Site Pleas

( my apogees if this somehow hurt / offended someones feelings )

@JKW if you see this tell me who you are I don't remember you but you just claimed you knew me on 2/20/2025 at 3:00pm just say when we last talked and include screenshots maybe i'll remember afterwards but I just have to be clear you ain't lying.

Men/Women I Have To Wright Sentences Cuz I Forgot My Band Instrument The Sentences Are '' I Will Remember My Instrument Tomorrow'' IM IN MIDDLE WHY THE HELL AM I WRITING SENTENCES.