Need advice on self-distraction

  • after my situation that went down, i keep constantly bugging people ik to talk to and call me and i wanna give them their space but then i get more sad and overthink, what can i do to help distract and isolate myself while being in a good mood?

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  • even at this moment im on a call waiting for someone to pop in and console me or talk to me which i dont think is healthy at all..

    I don’t blame you for wanting to be surrounded people who care for you, that’s one of the best things to do in this situation. If you want to distract yourself in a healthy way, do something productive! It could be something like learning a new skill, trying a new recipe, doing something creative, etc. As long as you’re trying your best to keep your mind off what happened, I’m sure it’ll feel a lot better

    no no its okay, but thank you though. Maybe ill try going outside more or talk to family

    The Unknown King of Moderation

    Wow my response sounds so AI generated lmao

    youre okayy

    Anonymous

    no no its okay, but thank you though. Maybe ill try going outside more or talk to family

    That sounds good! Is it still snowy where you live?

    Dwelling on the past will only make you more sad though, I did that for way too long before realizing how detrimental it was to my mental health

    how can i not think about what hes done to me though? its like i see him ever

    like some kind of parasite

    Anonymous

    how can i not think about what hes done to me though? its like i see him ever

    everywhere*

    Yeah, it’s hard to forget things like that, especially given the circumstances. I think the best thing you can do right now is work on moving from thinking about it in a negative “I hate that I did that,” way to a retrospective “I’m not gonna do that again” way

    The Unknown King of Moderation

    Yeah, it’s hard to forget things like that, especially given the circumstances. I think the best thing you can do right now is work on moving from thinking about it in a negative “I hate that I did that,” way to a retrospective “I’m not gonna do that again” way

    If that makes any sense

    It takes time and some struggle, but accepting, learning from, and moving past your mistakes is really beneficial

    The Unknown King of Moderation

    If that makes any sense

    yeah, it does. thanks

    Don’t let one thing that happened define you as a person, and don’t let the thought of some worthless douchebag hurt you.

    thanks jake, i appreciate it lots..

    is it bad i want to talk sm shit abt him though?

    Anonymous

    is it bad i want to talk sm shit abt him though?

    I mean, it’s completely justified given what he did, but it’s not going to help anything, and might even hurt things. He can ruin his image all on his own

    makes more sense, thank you again (sorry abt all the thanks yous)

    BRO WHAT HAPPENED ARE U SAFE?

    yyaa, its just i gone through a pretty bad break up on thursday

    still figuring everything outt

    urfavvirgo

    did he tell ppl

    well, it was in front of the whole gymnasium

    I’m talking abt the texts and pictures

    god i hope not, he promised after he wont..

    but still it hurts me on how he did it

    even though the relationship wasnt as good

    im doing better, how are you?

    i hope you guys are doing well though

    Heroin Monkey
    Image

    That looks like something from a picture show.

    I know what she looks like

    i can send you the picture and you can confirm or deny

    its kinda dead for 8 peopl

    JAKKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEEKEKEkEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKKKEKEKEE

    Toast ツ

    its kinda dead for 8 peopl

    Who did it? I would like to congratulate them, it is quite hard to kill chats here.

    Heroin Monkey

    should i post it here

    No

    The Radio Demon

    Who did it? I would like to congratulate them, it is quite hard to kill chats here.

    Give yourself a pat on the back

    Heroin Monkey

    should i post it here

    If you want to upset people, yes, if you want to spare emotions no

    The Unknown King of Moderation

    Give yourself a pat on the back

    Oh, did I do it? Wow

    i updated my uwu crew profile

    The Radio Demon

    Goodbye

    You old-timey prick

    The Radio Demon

    Excuse me?

    Are you fucking deaf?

    Toast ツ

    god its a parody

    What are you talking about?

    Toast ツ

    You, my feathered friend

    I am not feathered, you idiot.

    Toast ツ

    You, my feathered friend

    Fucktard every seen a fucking TV?

    who are you

    Who do you think?

    Vox

    Who do you think?

    idk

    Anonymous

    hihi

    wsg

    Comment deleted by The Radio Demon

    You bitch

    What would u say if I told u I enjoy watching tv

    The best insult the mighty television can come up with is “You bitch”

    arsonisfun

    What would u say if I told u I enjoy watching tv

    Nothing, hopefully not THAT TV, people say he’s very ugly undressed

    YOU BITCH

    Prolly true with the way u defending urselfff

    You guys should keep fighting fr

    arsonisfun

    Prolly true with the way u defending urselfff

    You probably have no fucking life, the way you’re egging us on you fuck

    Vox

    You probably have no fucking life, the way you’re egging us on you fuck

    Yes now continuee 🍿🍿

    popcorn

    At least I have technology, you only have a motherfucking rotary phone

    Vox

    You probably have no fucking life, the way you’re egging us on you fuck

    Can you fuck of?

    Vox

    You probably have no fucking life, the way you’re egging us on you fuck

    Nah but actually I do this to everyone it's so funnyy

    wsg ingenious

    arsonisfun

    Nah but actually I do this to everyone it's so funnyy

    U ain't getting the special treatment man

    What is this idiot yapping about

    Vox

    At least I have technology, you only have a motherfucking rotary phone

    Even Adam is better at insulting than you, and he is pretty bad at it…

    Anonymous

    What is this idiot yapping about

    I don’t even know, he seems to be very angry at me

    Anonymous

    What is this idiot yapping about

    He's fighting with radio demon and I was an instigator as always and came after me

    No shit

    The Radio Demon

    I don’t even know, he seems to be very angry at me

    He's just jelly that u don't look like a square

    Vox

    No shit

    Shush now or I'll change the channel

    The Radio Demon

    Even Adam is better at insulting than you, and he is pretty bad at it…

    Says the king of retarded old-Tibet insults

    Vox you need to grow some balls and then shut the fuck up

    Vox

    Says the king of retarded old-Tibet insults

    Timey. What the fuck is wrong with my device?

    Anonymous

    Vox you need to grow some balls and then shut the fuck up

    It started before you came

    Vox

    Timey. What the fuck is wrong with my device?

    This is funny coming from u frr lmaoo

    Vox

    It started before you came

    Ok cool, AG.

    arsonisfun

    This is funny coming from u frr lmaoo

    HAHA VEEY FUNNY

    Anonymous

    Ok cool, AG.

    Who is AG?

    Anonymous

    Vox you need to grow some balls and then shut the fuck up

    Nah man their users r both characters from that one show i think they acting like them cuz in the show they hate each other

    Vox

    HAHA VEEY FUNNY

    Glad u agree 🥐🥐

    arsonisfun

    Nah man their users r both characters from that one show i think they acting like them cuz in the show they hate each other

    Well spotted! Vox seems to be mad at me, and I love arguing!

    Comment deleted by arsonisfun

    My cousin invited himself over and I don’t want him here

    kik him out

    kick

    Like it's gonna be so bad cuz then they might tattle on u

    Comment deleted by arsonisfun

    Vox probably disappeared to look for the problem in his device, but really he should be looking inside himself

    This is not the end!!

    why

    Anonymous

    My cousin invited himself over and I don’t want him here

    Expel him using some sort of firearm

    xin

    why

    He used proper Grammer and FULL PUNCTUATION

    arsonisfun

    I wanna kms so bad rn

    No. Absolutely not!

    arsonisfun

    He used proper Grammer and FULL PUNCTUATION

    oh

    arsonisfun

    He used proper Grammer and FULL PUNCTUATION

    What?

    Idk jts just so weird seeing it in text

    The Radio Demon

    Expel him using some sort of firearm

    Fr

    hi angel

    angel dust

    anthony

    TOASTTTS

    doin goood, really excited for tonighut

    LOL it does

    how ar eyou?

    getting ready

    for my date

    yeaaah

    HERLP

    HI JAKE

    MALALALALLALALALALALALLALALALALALAL

    TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAST

    im playing music though

    Mal, can I talk to you on uwu?

    Heroin Monkey
    Image

    where do you get all your memes again?

    i got a fuckin 50 on my end of chapter math quiz

    nd a 70 on my project

    OH I FORGOT TO TURN IN THE SUBMISSION FORM

    howre u doing todayy

    Flappy.

    howre u doing todayy

    FLAPS

    urfavvirgo

    FLAPS

    EMIOYYY

    mal♡

    im goood hbu

    help sorry im gooood

    MY CATS ARE BEING SO NEEDY

    Heroin Monkey

    kfc kentucky fried cats

    NoooOOO\

    i have 2 greusome photos of dead cats on my computer for some reason

    i wanna draw somth today

    Flappy.

    i wanna draw somth today

    Draw a cat

    Heroin Monkey

    dogs are better

    hard disagree

    Toast ツ

    Draw a cat

    like a furry or

    urfavvirgo

    *emily

    my bad

    Jaded Betta Fish