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To all of the people who have called me ugly:

Your opinion on my looks doesn't change my personality. I may be ugly, I may be a disgrace to look at, but I don't care. You're not the judge of what is beautiful, so fuck off. I know I'm ugly, and having so many people tell me this has made my self esteem image 100 times worse. So I hope you can all sleep well knowing that you ruined my image of myself.

And you're right. I am ugly.

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I do sleep very well y saying your ugly

They're right Cacey. Stop saying that I'm not.

Hailey, it’s not good to just give up like this. I’ve grown up with countless people who’ve had this mindset, I even knew another Hailey with it (spelled different tho), and that made things even worse. If you really do see yourself as ugly, see what you can do to to see yourself as beautiful, the same way myself and so many others do. Again, not trying to be creepy. Just try not to let these people get in your head. They’re trolls who find it funny to try and ruin other people’s lives.

But whats the point in trying to fight back?

Honestly, there isn’t a point. People are freaking stubborn, and really stupid. Sometimes you just need to forget about them and ignore them. Trying to fight back and just giving in aren’t the only options, but they are the worst ones. This sounds stupid, but I heard a quote similar to this in some Star Wats thing. “The path to the dark side is an easy one,” and that is very true in life. Doing the wrong things is often easier than the right ones, but it is destructive to us. Doing the right things, albeit a more difficult task, makes us better, it comes with rewards. It may take a while, but it’s always the better thing to do.

My image of myself is already destroyed though,

I understand that, I’ve been through the same thing, and I gave up, just as you seem to be doing. And it destroyed me further, I became shrouded by my fears, all because I gave into them. The path of recovery is a difficult one, and it’s one I’m struggling to follow, but it’s there. It’s always there, even in the darkest of places.

Yeah.... I know you're right but theres just something in me that won't stop.

I get that too. It’s like when I watch a horror movie late at night. I know it’s not real, I know the truth, but something in my mind tries to tell me that it is. And that part of the mind is manipulative, it’s strong. It’s seemingly impossible to turn off. Honestly, the only way I know how to deal with it is to just keep going. It might hurt, I might be super anxious walking around the house that night, but I can’t let that stop from doing things. I can’t let it truly get to me and prevent me from living my life. And after defying it long enough, it goes away.

I’ve got to go get ready for bed, but I’ll be back on soon if you need to talk about anything.

I’m back btw, just thought I’d let you know. Forgot to say that earlier lol

I'm home from school now, Finally, so CLOSE to camp!! :D

Nice!! That’ll be a fun break from stuff, especially all the drama that was going on today lol

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fr no one asked, I mean I'm not trying to be rude but like why would you put all that info about yourself on here your 12 Hailey and I bet your really pretty but like your a child

Hailey, you have to rebuild your self-esteem or you won't succeed in life. Fuck everybody who says you're ugly. FUCK THEM ALL.

YES BUT NOT LITERALLY!!! What Dagger said is the absolute truth, things get hard when you keep yourself in a dark place. When people try to keep you in that dark place you just need to ignore them, forget about them. Don’t let them affect you.

Hailey ur awesome dont listen to them

at last you finally admitted you were ugly

dagger and jake, that was number 1. cyberbullying is illegal

Wdym number one? Also murder muffin, go drink bleach pls.

remember i said i was gonna count every front and illegal action here? well cyberbullying is technically illegal sooo murder muffin in trouble >:)

also jake why drink bleach when you can slurp don't molten lego?

Ah, that's what you meant. Nice, forgot about that lol. Thanks for keeping tab.

Side note, melting legos smell disgusting but also kind of lemony.

but hey im down if you wanna get high on legos together

Lmao, I was just melting a lego with a magnifying glass one day and it had such a potent smell, I'll never forget it.

Nah...maybe...not sure, it was a while ago

Sorry man, it was like 4 or 5 years ago, how was I supposed to know

ur ugly there

die, why come here and just start causing problems?

Sorry you still had to come back to that, Hailey. I wish I had the power to stop trolls like this but unfortunately I don’t.

hailey really brought the whole squad in to defend her xd

and i did drink that bleach, it was delicious. 10/10 stars

Nice, glad you enjoyed it! She didn’t bring anyone, we’re just a supportive community.

Hailey, your new profile pic looks awesome! Why do you call yourself ugly? I think that first face reveal threw us off because it's all about positioning. But really, you're not ugly.

All of my friends aren't ugly, fat, too skinny or anything.... I'm like the odd one out.

stop it hailey. you are hurting yourself with these comments.

Yeah, rmk is right. I know it may not mean much to you but you really are NOT ugly. And also, being too skinny isn't a thing. Maybe you could argue that starving African children are too skinny, but you are totally not like that. Being skinny & small is awesome! I'm super skinny and really short, and it comes in handy. I think I said it before, but it really helps in large crowds when I need to get places faster. I like to think of it as some sort of "tiny people powers," if you will.

If I'm hurting myself with these comments, and you think I should stop, that doesn't make any sense. Because It would hurt me more if I were lying to myself. You don't know how self conscious I am.

Hailey, your definition of truth and lie has been twisted. It's not a truth that you're not ugly, you just don't see it that way.

Last night I was at Maccas bc we needed to eat before the party we went to, and these girls were pointing at me, kinda frowning and whispering to eachother, I looked at them, and they instantly looked away. Not long after that, they look at me and laugh.

About how old would you say these girls were? And did they know you?

@Jake they looked like they were my age

There's a difference between being old and being mature. They were very very immature.

Yeah Dagger’s right, what they did was stupid and immature. Girls can be like that with other girls sometimes, ESPECIALLY when they feel bad about THEMSELVES. Like I said a few days ago when people were calling you ugly, people who think bad about themselves will try to bring other people down to, or below their level in order to make themselves feel better.

This actually sounds quite similar to what that previously mentioned other Hailey I knew had been going through when SHE was 12. Lots of bad self image stuff, ended up really hurting her. I remember her crying in class and talking to the teacher because she had no one else to talk with.

Dang that short hits pretty hard

Hailey, I always think about this: I’m the only one who truly knows what I’m going through. Because of this, I think that I’m the only one who can help myself, which isn’t entirely true. I’m the only one who can help other people help me. To an extent, yes, I can help myself, but that doesn’t work all by itself.

Is there anything at all that you can think of that can help you, or even that caused this in the first place? Both of those would be incredibly useful in tackling this. I have to be blunt here, but honestly, if you can’t get this under control now, it will further consume you and cause so much pain in your life.

I know, But I gtg now. I'll ttyl. Bai 😶

Don’t say bad things about yourself