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Lost a Friend and Need Advice

    • hey guys, i usually don't do posts like this since i dont wanna vent or whatever, but i wanted to talk to yall. not about my medical shit or me feeling ugly cuz korea or whatever its that i recently lost my best friend and i was wondering im in the asshole lmfao aaand i need advice lmfao first off we met in eigth grade and her name, lets call her kim. kim was in a friend group with me, ha rin (haerin on wje) kim was always jealous of me and ha rin since me and ha rin are close (hold up ill just call her haerin for know lmao) and kim always acted cold towards me. i constantly asked her to hang out w me and haerin and she always made up excuses (ex. i dont feel like it, or making up reasons) and then when i wasnt available she hung out w haerin. they went to a party and didnt invite me, but haerin told me abt this later. this went on for a whole year, and during that time me and kim were close for some reason but me and haerin were always going to be the closest. then, kim met another girlin the middleof grade 9,l lets call her lee. lee was super duper cool and soon after she joined our little group. ha rin moved to the us for a couple of months,so for a while it was just me, lee, and kim in our group and out of jealousy, i texted kim shit about lee which i didnt mean and kim got mad, sent screenshots to haerin, and then met up with lee and talked shit about me. then, at lunch i sat with kim to discuuss it and she wasnt willing to forgive me and she was acting mean, and then she texted me that she didnt wanna be my friend, and so i kicked her from the friend group, and then she sent more screenshots to haerin and i kinda said some shit to kim. later, kim made new friends and stayed close w haerin and talked more shit about me. i reached out to kim to try to explain myself but kim did not want to and sent more screenshots in a group chat, and then blocked me. kim is still friends w haerin and idk wat to do and lee is mad at me wat do i do

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    • i see you're in a sticky situation-- just corner lee and apologize, say that you were really wrong to say such things that just flew from your mouth. Don't say that you didn't mean to, because you did. That's just gonna make Lee think that you think you did nothing wrong. second, ignore kim, she's a lost cause. Just tell Haerin to tell Kim that you want to make peace, but if kim is still annoying about it, cut all ties with her. third, please keep in mind that you should always think before you do something, cos everything you do has a consequence. <3 try out some of my advice and see how it turns out.

    woah...that complex....hopefully it gets better soon

    applee

    i see you're in a sticky situation-- just corner lee and apologize, say that you were really wrong to say such things that just flew from your mouth. Don't say that you didn't mean to, because you did. That's just gonna make Lee think that you think you did nothing wrong. second, ignore kim, she's a lost cause. Just tell Haerin to tell Kim that you want to make peace, but if kim is still annoying about it, cut all ties with her. third, please keep in mind that you should always think before you do something, cos everything you do has a consequence. <3 try out some of my advice and see how it turns out.

    wow applegreen u have some great advice

    I ain’t reading allat

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    Hello

    Been a while man

    DID U DALL ASLEEP ON ME

    WAKE UP :c

    okioki good

    DROP YOUTUBE IM HERE

    wait so r yall friends irl

    its me guys

    the call was fun asf and im a goofy ahh emo

    did you get my google chat message opal

    yeah i did

    wanna call tmrw

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    isnt it 4 am for you bub go to bed

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    spill

    Anonymous

    isnt it 4 am for you bub go to bed

    no

    your eye bags are probably so big girl

    cant be talking leo you never sleep and you luv it

    your not my older sister

    and its only 2 years

    Anonymous

    wait so r yall friends irl

    yes, we dated aswell.

    all my fellas js hopped on

    yayyy were probably js eating buldak and watching skz right

    i had it yesterday tho :<

    how the fuck can yll handle that

    IZ SO SPICY

    im in the mood for gimbap tho

    thats like korean sushi right

    ive had it

    i luv sushi

    opal

    thats like korean sushi right

    korean sushi is wild. but yes

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    With a full man chu

    awww

    The Esteemed One

    guess whos also coming

    you did not you sneaky bitch

    KIDZBOPUwU4LIFE

    huh

    this is my bestie forever haerin

    its exciting ofc but like

    also were watching my demon since you didnt watch the latest episode

    The Esteemed One

    also were watching my demon since you didnt watch the latest episode

    thanks. ill see u in twenty

    KIDZBOPUwU4LIFE

    hii

    hi!!!!!!!!! hru

    KIDZBOPUwU4LIFE

    come on, be happy!!

    i am cuz me and some pplare gonna hang out

    Anonymous

    i am cuz me and some pplare gonna hang out

    oh ok thats nice

    KIDZBOPUwU4LIFE

    i gtg now guys, bye bye

    NOOO

    The Esteemed One

    ae cha help should i do a pfp

    asap bro your werid

    hiii <3

    thts an interesting photo u chose there

    leo do your photo

    i dont wanna since im in the sanrio squad!

    yeah i showed them a photo of me

    only good one of me lmfao

    i couldnt talk on there but i can speak english fluently

    The Esteemed One

    i couldnt talk on there but i can speak english fluently

    bro i spoke so badly

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    Chicago is not a good place

    it was trash and i went to a shitty ass ghetto school

    texas ain better

    ok bro

    applee

    i see you're in a sticky situation-- just corner lee and apologize, say that you were really wrong to say such things that just flew from your mouth. Don't say that you didn't mean to, because you did. That's just gonna make Lee think that you think you did nothing wrong. second, ignore kim, she's a lost cause. Just tell Haerin to tell Kim that you want to make peace, but if kim is still annoying about it, cut all ties with her. third, please keep in mind that you should always think before you do something, cos everything you do has a consequence. <3 try out some of my advice and see how it turns out.

    yh

    man thats sad bro

    js apologize

    No sane person would read your little, "sob story".

    Concise Gannet